While Thanksgiving is fast approaching, it’s not the only holiday on the horizon. Beyond that, is Christmas. And while Thanksgiving is considered a time to give thanks, Christmas — for us — is a time to focus on the joy of giving. Yes, for kids, it’s about getting. Making lists for Santa. Asking for presents. But for our boys, we try to shift their focus to the underlying theme — the joy of giving (not getting).
So, with that in mind, I’ve created a list for you….
Christmas Books About Giving, NOT Getting
Here are some Christmas books about giving, not getting. I’ve included affiliate links to Amazon, in case you’d like to buy them for the little ones in your lives. I’ll include a short synopsis of each story, in case you find that helpful… and a sentence or two about why this book intrigued me.
Story Synopsis: As the title states, Brother and Sister learn about the joy of giving! At first, the bear cubs are like any other kids anticipating Christmas — they are excited about the getting aspect. But as they go through the festivities, and have bought their presents (saving as much of their money for themselves as they can) — they end up having a change of heart. After they hear the Christmas Even pageant story, Brother and Sister end up giving their “saved” money to the poor.
Betsy’s Thoughts: My kids love everything Berenstain Bears, so this one was a no brainer for me. Brother and Sister are relatable characters for young kids, and my boys have enjoyed learning about other holidays with books in the series (like the Valentine’s Day Blessing activity we did).
Story Synopsis: A retelling of the story of St. Nicholas, set in modern times. This story portraits Nicholas as a young bog who wants to help the poor. He spends his life secretly helping poor people, giving gifts on Christmas Eve to remind others of the greatest gift of Christmas.
Betsy’s Thoughts: I loved the illustrations in this book, and how the story is set in modern times — it’s a fun retelling of the classic legend. The last pages of the book share traditions in other countries about Father Christmas.
Story Synopsis: A selfish little bunny ends up lost in the woods with just his toys. while wandering, some birds mistake him for Santa — who they hope can find them a place to live. Ultimately Howard learns that having things isn’t really that important, compared to being around loved ones. Howard gives his toys away to the forest birds.
Betsy’s Thoughts: This story sounds great for little ones, because the emotions are ones they can relate to easily. The bunny’s materialism (my toys” ) ultimately gives way to gratefulness and giving. And, there’s a song too!
Story Synopsis: While the family goes out to get the Christmas tree, the poky little puppy wanders off and makes friends with a skunk. On Christmas morning, he learns that his friend is homeless — and the poky little puppy gives up his first Christmas present to make sure his friend has a home.
Betsy’s Thoughts: My boys love this book. It helps reinforce the idea of looking out for others, and caring about the wellbeing of others more than about the stuff you have.
Story Synopsis: Roland selfishly thinks that bigger is better. So when he gets a very small Christmas present he wishes for something bigger, bigger, and bigger. In the end, Roland learns that it isn’t really the size of a present that matters — a skyscraper-sized gift can’t compare to the greatest gift of all — family.
Betsy’s Thoughts: Kids tend to think that bigger is better (a penny has to be worth more because it’s bigger than a dime, right? Kid logic.). I like how this book goes to extremes of searching for a suitably bigger present, with the ultimate discovery that finding that present isn’t as valuable as spending time with family.
Story Synopsis: After Junior wonders what Santa has to do with the meaning of Christmas (i.e. the birth of Jesus), Bob the Tomato tells the story of St. Nicholas to the veggies.
Betsy’s Thoughts: My kids love VeggieTales, so this Christmas story about giving seemed like a sure winner. And, I like that it has a music CD. Because, if you’re going to do VeggieTales, it has be be set to music, right?
Story Synopsis: A boy journeys through a winter forest, looking for a wish tree. He meets animals along the way, and helps them. Ultimately, he finds his wishing tree and ties his wish to the branch.
Betsy’s Thoughts: I like the illustrations in this book, and also that it’s not specifically a Christmas story. The boy, even though he wants to have his own wish come true, takes time away from his journey to help others along the way. I love stories that reinforce the importance of giving!
Story Synopsis: While on the way to see their grandkids for Christmas, Grandma and Grandpa lose all their presents in a big storm. The grandparents, along with their grandchildren, search all over Mother Goose Land to find them. Ultimately, they discover the best gifts of all — gifts of the heart.
Betsy’s Thoughts: I really liked the title of this story. Because what I want my kids to focus on during Christmas is on giving. And there is nothing better than giving out of love and generosity.
Story Synopsis: Oscar the mouse runs away from home to look for a bed with more hay. He finds himself in the stable where Mary and Joseph have stopped. He tries to make friends with the animals, but only succeeds in getting them to give him some hay for his bed. When he finally has enough hay for the perfect bed, Oscar is lonely. Mary befriends him, and helps him see the true meaning of friendship. And in the end, Oscar gives up his hay so that the newborn baby Jesus can have a bed. He returns home that night, with a deeper understanding and appreciation for what it means to be a friend, and to give up that which matters most to you.
Betsy’s Thoughts: This is my all time favorite Christmas story. I remember it from when I was little, and love the mouse’s viewpoint …and how he decides to selflessly give away that one thing which he wanted most.
Mr. Getaway and the Christmas Elves
Story Synopsis: Mr. Getaway takes his class on a field trip to see Santa’s workshop. The kids learn that work is good, and get to see the elves happily working on toys they will be giving away.
Betsy’s Thoughts: Since my kindergartner is excited about anything “field trip” related, I figured this book would be a hit. I like that it focuses on how the elves selflessly work on gifts to send to children via Santa.
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This post is part of the Winter and Holiday book series being hosted by The Jenny Evolution!
Please check out the other book lists being shared…
There are book lists about Christmas Eve, the Nutcracker, the Nativity, Christmas tree books, books about reindeer, books about snow, Christmas coloring books, Christmas classics, books that celebrate 0winter holidays around the world, animals in the snow, Christmas songs, Christmas miracles, rhyming Christmas books, and more.